If you have lost access to your account (forgotten username, forgotten password, or otherwise), the only way to recover that access is to go on NoBleme's NoBleme's IRC chat server and ask for a website administrator to manually reset your account's password. No need to worry about identity usurpation, there is a strict process in place that will allow the administrator to verify your identity before doing the resetting.
As of right now, there are no official NoBleme communities or accounts outside of this website, our IRC chat server, the NoBleme Discord server, the Mastodon @firstname.lastname@example.org, and the subreddit r/nobleme.
NoBleme has no direct link with any community, group, or individual claiming to represent NoBleme outside of those listed above. As we strive for inclusivity, we want to ensure that any space officially associated with NoBleme is properly moderated and welcoming to all. Thus, we will not recognize any other spaces as being a part of the "official" NoBleme community.
This is not to say that you can not or should not create your own NoBleme related communities, groups, or pages. Feel free to do so, we will not try to claim ownership or intervene in any way as long as you respect the spirit of the main website and community: we do not believe in strong intellectual property, NoBleme is not a brand, it is merely a name that anyone can borrow if they feel a kinship towards it. We are already aware of a few NoBleme groups in various video games for example, and greatly appreciate that they have bonded over our community spirit enough to want to play together.